February 2012
28 posts
theredladyelebuu asked: OMFG THAT IS WHAT I AM. I'm grey-ace and studying to work in multidisciplinary linguistics research! ~*I'm not the only one*~
SUDDEN IDEA
detectivepunchymchitsthings:
you know how there’s lgbtfest over on LJ? what if there was an acefest, too? and/or arofest? do these already exist? is anyone interested? i have found the asexy valentines fest, but it’s focused pretty much just on asexual romance, and what about demisexuality and grey-a and aromanticism and queerplatonic relationships? i just really want this, okay?
I’m...
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Anonymous asked: Another ace linguistics major here! :D
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Next Step: Cake: Further adventures of an Aro Ace... →
undeadpuppies:
nextstepcake:
That awkward movement when you’re doing educational/bonding/whatever activities in your student-run female sexuality course
and they ask everyone to cross to the other side of the room if they have ever been attracted to someone just because of how they looked
and you are the only one left…
Same thing happened to me, except it was during a drinking game, “Have...
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Insert something witty and creative here..?: Dear... →
jiji-is-a-bunny:
According to my psychology professor, we do not exist.
According to her, we are wrong for existing.
My professor flat out said this morning that she does not “believe” in bisexuals. She proceeded to say that the only valid and real orientations are heterosexual, and homosexual,and nothing else…
How exactly did this person even get enough of a degree to become a...
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Further adventures of an Aro Ace in FemSex...
That awkward movement when you’re doing educational/bonding/whatever activities in your student-run female sexuality course
and they ask everyone to cross to the other side of the room if they have ever been attracted to someone just because of how they looked
and you are the only one left standing at the start
because you are an aromantic asexual
and you have never been attracted to a...
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aforaffort:
I genuinely wonder if asexual people are more likely to also identify as some form of genderqueer or trans*
Do you guys know of any decent studies in this regard?
There haven’t been any formal studies, but there have been informal community polls that have found higher rates of trans*, genderqueer, or other non-cis gender identities among the ace community.
For...
Asexual PoC
asexualeducation:
A new tumblr blog has been created specifically for those who’re PoC and asexual. I would highly recommend following it even if you’re not a PoC but only to observe and learn, rather than contribute.
http://asexualpocsunite.tumblr.com/
PoC = People of colour.
Calling all NZ aces - 20/20 NZ interviews
avenpt:
20/20 NZ would like to cover asexuality! Are you in New Zealand and interested in asexual visibility and education? Asexuality is apparently still a relatively little discussed subject in NZ - despite the asexual character in Shortland Street - and it would be great to get it into the mainstream media.
Any volunteers, please email us at aven.pt@gmail.com as soon as possible, and we’ll...
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UK Observer asexuality article - "Among the... →
oh hey look it’s me (in the photo).
For those of you who have paper copies of the Observer, it should be on page 22.
AVEN Project Team: Calling all NZ aces - 20/20 NZ... →
avenpt:
20/20 NZ would like to cover asexuality! Are you in New Zealand and interested in asexual visibility and education? Asexuality is apparently still a relatively little discussed subject in NZ - despite the asexual character in Shortland Street - and it would be great to get it into the…
imheretoseeifyoucanfly:
i’m pretty bummed that there’s a post going around saying “has any clever asexual made a one percent joke yet?” because i submitted exactly that joke to facts about queers almost a week ago and it just hasn’t been posted yet
and i’m really proud of that joke and was surprised i hadn’t seen anything about it yet
uuuuugggghhh
Hahaha….actually, I had been seeing...
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this space intentionally left blank: AVENues call... →
littlepaperfrogs:
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please pass this along! we’re still looking for entries for the upcoming issue.
avenpt:
Aces, Graces, Demis, and Allies! AVENues wants YOU!
Avenues is a bimonthly online publication by and for the ace community, featuring articles, short stories, comics, real life experiences,…
AVEN Project Team: "Din" - call for submissions! →
avenpt:
We recently heard from the editorial team for New Mexico State University’s undergraduate literary magazine, Din. They seem keen to encourage submissions from asexuals. From a member of the editorial team:
This year we’re adding a new section for criticism, which I’m on the editing team…
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Lesbian Black Triangle vs. The AVEN Triangle
(separated from a previous discussion, since this is changing the topic a little)
shiyiya:
greenchestnuts:
Critique of popular reason: Unpopular opinion
writingfromfactorx:
greenchestnuts:
metapianycist:
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Okay I have been annoyed at this discussion and wanting to mention this for ages
You know who else was thrown in the camps? “Antisocial” people. With a black...
AVEN Project Team: AVENues call for submissions! →
avenpt:
Aces, Graces, Demis, and Allies! AVENues wants YOU!
Avenues is a bimonthly online publication by and for the ace community, featuring articles, short stories, comics, real life experiences, interviews recipes, current events and more.
But AVENues doesn’t write itself - that’s where you come…
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AVEN Project Team: AVENues call for submissions! →
just bumping this :)
We really want submissions, so if you have any interest, don’t be shy!
avenpt:
Aces, Graces, Demis, and Allies! AVENues wants YOU!
Avenues is a bimonthly online publication by and for the ace community, featuring articles, short stories, comics, real life experiences, interviews recipes, current events and more.
But AVENues doesn’t write itself - that’s where...
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Volunteers needed for Sun article (UK)
avenpt:
The Sun, a UK national newspaper, wishes to do an article on asexuals. They are looking to talk to 3-4 British asexuals, 18-35ish range. If you’re interested, please contact us immediately at aven.pt@gmail.com. The interviews would have to be this week, and would need to include your name and a professional photo - they’ll send someone. You would be paid for your time.
The author has...
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AVEN Project Team: Volunteers needed for Sun... →
avenpt:
The Sun, a UK national newspaper, wishes to do an article on asexuals. They are looking to talk to 3-4 British asexuals, 18-35ish range. If you’re interested, please contact us immediately at aven.pt@gmail.com. The interviews would have to be this week, and would need to include your name and a…
Beta Of The Month: Asexual Purgatory (WARNING:... →
asexualeducation:
[TW] Acephobia, rape culture, sexist language.
Also, please take note that the comments on this article are just as bad and as disgusting as the article itself!
Guys, I really need your help here.
This article right here: This right here badly needs our attention.
Whoever wrote it has…
With offensiveness and harrassment of this level, I strongly advise against trying...
First gyno visit:
asexualeducation:
mrhia:
Doctor: …and have you started sexual activity yet? Me: Hah! No. And I’m not likely to any time soon. Doctor: Oh. Why not? Is there- Me: Oh no, there’s no- it’s nothing, it’s just- I might eventually meet someone I wouldn’t mind doing it for, of course, but otherwise, why bother? I’m asexual, and my libido so far is nonexistent, so it’s not like I- Doctor: Miss, did...
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AVENues call for submissions!
avenpt:
Aces, Graces, Demis, and Allies! AVENues wants YOU!
Avenues is a bimonthly online publication by and for the ace community, featuring articles, short stories, comics, real life experiences, interviews recipes, current events and more.
But AVENues doesn’t write itself - that’s where you come in! AVENues is now looking for writers, photographers and artists to submit their work to...